The one you love and the one who loves you,

We're often stucked between two types of people :

• The one you love
• The one who loves you

So, how and what are we to do when we meet such situations? Do you or you or you know? Sometimes, thinking is good... it makes me think of many things and at least all these while, I've managed to come up with a conclusion for myself.

The one you love.

When you love someone, it doesn't means that the person would necessarily love you back. Although that person doesn't love you, you often tell yourself you're willing to wait. And even if you can't get him in the end, you comfort yourself by telling yourself love needs affinity. But how are we to control how we feel when we just feel that way? When we just love, we love. It's not as if anyone wants to purposely fall for someone that won't love them back right? -.- And you're willing to give everything up for him, you don't mind sacrificing anything. Your time, your love, your money.... your friends. For the one you love, you go to far distance, to a certain extent, I don't know how this can be under a human's capabilities to do so. That's how you love someone. And then he knows you love him, so he asks you to go with the one that loves you instead of him. And because that's what he wants, you'll just agree and... it wasn't your choice in the end, or was it?

The one who loves you.

In return, the one who loves you is always there for you, he is willing to also give everything up for you. He doesn't mind if he's your spare tyre, he doesn't mind because he loves you. Put yourself in his shoes, it's just like you wanting the person you love to love you back, to at least turn around... With the one who loves you, you are like queen. Whereas to the one you love, you'd always have to chase after them. You're always behind them. At times, you don't have the heart to hurt the one who loves you, so you ended up being with them.

Conclusion.

I have already made my choice, but yet I have drops and cracks of regrets. I once again feel like wallowing myself in misery and to drift myself into a xanadu. Flurry myself in the midst of thousands, I will. And if I could choose again, I rather not meet any of you out there. Just so you know, I've always loved you, with every inch of my heart, and every flesh on me. Always remember, I will never forget you, like how you'll never forget me... One day, if you ever miss me, look up at the sky, and spot the brightest star, for at least we know we're wishing under the same star, and sleeping under the same sky.

Edit/ : Once there was someone who told me, if I loved someone, I should hold on tight and not let go, because we can only love once that hard. Yet, another told me that if we love someone we should learn to let go, so that we can let the other party find happiness. But of which is a choice that I should make? It was never ever of circumstance, but of choice. We all do contemplate, but it's the final choice you make, that matters most. And once you've decided, go on with your choice, do not regret, do not look back -

Love,
Unknown Blogger.
-xo